It's been two weeks now since we've been "home" and have finally adjusted to the time difference. We are so ever-grateful to our family members that have taken us in but we are again like gypsies just like right before we left for Indonesia. The hardest part so far has been seeing our home lived in by another family (who are taking good care of it), our once-before possessions being used and owned by someone else, a dog that looked just like Honey and dealing with the feeling of bewilderment -- how quickly it all went yet how heavy it's presence lingers!? I think we are in search of familiarity and normalcy.
It's funny -- everything is the same but everything is different. Like the food we were looking forward to is not the same but that hasn't stopped us from total gluttony. I have let the kiddos eat pretty much anything whenever they want because in one month's time they won't get the chance. I must look like a lost freak in the grocery and liquor store with my face exuding sheer panic and excitement from all the choices and prices. Yes, some stuff is equally priced but my hair mousse is three times more expensive in Indonesia. It pisses me off a little bit -- how can it be that much more? And milk! Milk is $10 a gallon in our little secluded town and here it's close to $4!?!?!? Crazy!!! I feel like we live in a ridiculous monopoly bubble there!
It's unfortunate how fast time has gone and Mike leaves in just two weeks. Thinking of him being so far away makes me sad and we haven't gotten to see all the people we had hoped to while he's here. We did however get to spend four days in beautiful downtown Denver alone for our anniversary and enjoyed every second. In a week we get to enjoy the gorgeous Colorado mountains in a large mountain home where we can freely hike, fish, bike and sleep under the stars. I am so, so, so looking forward to that as we are very restrained in the mine town we live in.
Living abroad has taught us all so much and I am so thankful and wouldn't have changed anything over the last year but the thing I have appreciated the most is where I have come from and who I am.
Can't wait for the mountain air and stars -- as always to be continued...
The life story of a little suburban, American, family that picks up and moves all the way around the world to a small town in Indonesia and then returns home. Hear the stories of their cultural challenges and amazing adventures as they re-discover life in America.
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Wednesday, June 18, 2014
Friday, June 6, 2014
AMERICA THE BEAUTIFUL!...
After an exhausting 36 or something hours we finally arrived home! Seriously, America is truly the most beautiful place on earth. I have experienced a few places over the last year and I have never been more proud to call this place my home! I know that no place is perfect and each has it's share of corruption, injustice, brutality and disgrace but here I have a choice and a chance.
We only arrived less than 24 hours ago and after a beautiful day with family and we were spent (yet I am typing this it's 4:00 in the morning as I can't sleep). The tears where few at the airport and there where many smiles. I thought I would just breakdown at the airport due to relief and exhaustion but held it together until I told Hannah and Mason it was time for bed. Mason was thoroughly confused and the last straw was broken when I explained that we were not going home because someone else lives there and we were staying with Grandma and Papa. He was hysterical. I have never seen him so upset and blame a little bit on him being so tired but I took his littleness for granted. My heart was instantly broken and all I could do was hold him and sob with him. There it was, my breakdown. I would never change the last year for anything and maybe it's the exhaustion talking but reflecting on last night with Mason and how I described where we live to my family, I wonder if the life lesson for us all has been achieved?
Either way our immediate future holds the blessed opportunity to enjoy time with family and friends, the freedom of speech, the 2nd Amendment and all the goodness of being an American encompasses!
We only arrived less than 24 hours ago and after a beautiful day with family and we were spent (yet I am typing this it's 4:00 in the morning as I can't sleep). The tears where few at the airport and there where many smiles. I thought I would just breakdown at the airport due to relief and exhaustion but held it together until I told Hannah and Mason it was time for bed. Mason was thoroughly confused and the last straw was broken when I explained that we were not going home because someone else lives there and we were staying with Grandma and Papa. He was hysterical. I have never seen him so upset and blame a little bit on him being so tired but I took his littleness for granted. My heart was instantly broken and all I could do was hold him and sob with him. There it was, my breakdown. I would never change the last year for anything and maybe it's the exhaustion talking but reflecting on last night with Mason and how I described where we live to my family, I wonder if the life lesson for us all has been achieved?
Either way our immediate future holds the blessed opportunity to enjoy time with family and friends, the freedom of speech, the 2nd Amendment and all the goodness of being an American encompasses!
Wednesday, May 14, 2014
The fun and learning never ends... Hari Kartini
A few months ago a friend of mine asked if I would like to participate in a Kebaya Batik fashion show. Kebaya is a traditional blouse-dress combination that originated and is still worn in Indonesia. Batik is various colored textile fabrics from Indonesia. One thing for sure is the Indonesian women are always nicely dressed and well accessorized. Who can say no to playing dress up!!?
The fashion show took place during the Hari Kartini celebration. Raden Ayu Kartini, or sometimes known as Raden Ajeng Kartini, was a prominent Javanese and an Indonesian national heroine. Kartini was a pioneer in the area of women's rights for Indonesians (google.com). The celebration was delightful. It included traditional Papuan dancers, singers, musicians, and lots of beautiful women dressed in ornately adorned Kebayas and batiks.
It was another successful experience where I got to appreciate more and more of this amazing and dynamic culture.
It is now only three weeks to the day that we get to fly home and see our precious family after a whole year!!!! So excited!!!
Pics from Hari Kartini...
The fashion show took place during the Hari Kartini celebration. Raden Ayu Kartini, or sometimes known as Raden Ajeng Kartini, was a prominent Javanese and an Indonesian national heroine. Kartini was a pioneer in the area of women's rights for Indonesians (google.com). The celebration was delightful. It included traditional Papuan dancers, singers, musicians, and lots of beautiful women dressed in ornately adorned Kebayas and batiks.
It was another successful experience where I got to appreciate more and more of this amazing and dynamic culture.
It is now only three weeks to the day that we get to fly home and see our precious family after a whole year!!!! So excited!!!
Pics from Hari Kartini...
Tuesday, May 6, 2014
Relfection and the blood that runs thick...
We are approaching our one year anniversary of moving across the world to a remote town in Indonesia. So, so, so, so crazy! What an amazing journey and life-altering experience! Looking back on the last year, it has gone by so quickly! I cannot believe the things we've done and seen -- from the Opera House in Australia to the temples in Yogyakarta to the beaches in Bali and to the elephants in Thailand!
The lessons I have learned more recently aside from day-to-day life here and traveling is the true reality of life and humanity in the jungle. From volunteering in the local village hospital I have seen starving children orphaned by AIDS, tough and relentless women providing for their family carrying tons of food on their heads while barefoot, men armed with bow and arrows and machetes and I have also seen the precious smiles and nods through a blockade of communication differences. Interesting how we all have an innate need to survive but enjoy the occasional softness of humility. These moments my children have barely seen but I hope what they have seen they hold dear and appreciate what they have and where they come from.
The people of this land can be very intimidating and aren't without their flaws as we aren't flawless either but their primal existence is humbling. They have learned to quickly adapt from only wearing penis guards to working underground operating equipment. However, I don't think they'll ever forget where they come from as their blood runs thick of jungle survival and when someone visits their villages it is like going back in time. They are very fascinating people!
There have been many fantastic memories made within this crazy year. We have all learned so much and I hope we have helped others learn and see new things as well. As we look forward to the trip home in about four weeks, no doubt, we will be bringing a little of Tembagapura back with us!
Below are pictures a friend took from the local tribes and me at the hospital...
The lessons I have learned more recently aside from day-to-day life here and traveling is the true reality of life and humanity in the jungle. From volunteering in the local village hospital I have seen starving children orphaned by AIDS, tough and relentless women providing for their family carrying tons of food on their heads while barefoot, men armed with bow and arrows and machetes and I have also seen the precious smiles and nods through a blockade of communication differences. Interesting how we all have an innate need to survive but enjoy the occasional softness of humility. These moments my children have barely seen but I hope what they have seen they hold dear and appreciate what they have and where they come from.
The people of this land can be very intimidating and aren't without their flaws as we aren't flawless either but their primal existence is humbling. They have learned to quickly adapt from only wearing penis guards to working underground operating equipment. However, I don't think they'll ever forget where they come from as their blood runs thick of jungle survival and when someone visits their villages it is like going back in time. They are very fascinating people!
There have been many fantastic memories made within this crazy year. We have all learned so much and I hope we have helped others learn and see new things as well. As we look forward to the trip home in about four weeks, no doubt, we will be bringing a little of Tembagapura back with us!
Below are pictures a friend took from the local tribes and me at the hospital...
Sunday, April 27, 2014
Thailand: the city of smiles and this is how I was going to die...
Every trip is approached with high anticipation. The desire for food, drinks, beaches and fun is abundant. Thailand was no exception and I was packed and ready to go days before. The morning of we weren't able to catch the chopper so a long and windy road brought us to the airport. Poor Lil' Hannah was super car sick but was able to not throw up. We boarded our flight and set off to Phuket.
Three flights and two layovers later we finally set our bags down in Thailand along with two other families. It was a long process to get there but we finally got some sleep! We stayed at Club Med Phuket (which I do not recommend because it was very overcrowded -- had to pretty much fight for food, drinks, a seat to eat our meals and the excursion was not what we paid for). The next day we took Hannah and Mason to kids club and us adults walked to town. What a wonderful place -- seriously, everyone smiles there!! I think because of their Buddhist culture.
Sunday was a very special for Thailand, their New Year where the Thai people celebrate the Songkran Festival (aka the water festival). The Songkran Festival is about cleaning, purification, and fresh starts. Houses are cleaned, Buddha statues are gently washed with scented water, and elders are honored by pouring water respectfully over their hands. Although the origins of Songkran are far more religious, splashing complete strangers with water has become the main attraction of the festival. Dousing or sprinkling people with water signifies the washing away of bad thoughts and actions, and brings them good luck in the new year (http://goasia.about.com/od/Events-and-Holidays/a/Thailand-Water-Festival.htm). We were armed with water guns, buckets, friends and new acquaintances. I have never had so much fun in my entire life. Witnessing the smiles on my hubby's, kiddos' and friends' faces was fabulous!
The next day Mike and our friend went on a private fishing boat and deep sea fished to celebrate their April birthdays. They caught yellow fin tuna that was instantly filleted and served right on the boat. They had a great time. Us ladies spent the day shopping and had a delicious lunch and drank some amazing wine while the kiddos played in kid club.
Tuesday we all packed into a van and went to find some elephants. The road our driver took had some deep curves and hills along the coastline where we got to view all the beautiful beaches, Buddhist offerings, huts, homes, and businesses. A fantastic drive. We arrived at a random place where four elephants were lined up ready to go amongst metal sided shacks with worn wooden plank stairs that housed the local Thai people. We all got on our elephants which was a little scary. They are so massive and you're so high up and when they walk they shift drastically from side to side. Mason was particularly nervous. They guided us through the hot jungle. The guide that was on the front of our elephant jumped off and asked me to sit on the elephant where he was. He instructed me to keep my hands on the top of the elephant's head. Cool! I was now guiding the elephant. All was well until we were greeted by an unwelcome wild dog. Our elephant and the elephant in front of us started to (what sounded like a) growl and the vibrations from their huge bodies was freakishly loud, deep and shook us (ah sh*t this is how I was going to die, by a elephant gone crazy in the jungle of Thailand!!). The guides shooed the dog and uneventfully we continued our walk (thank God!). We stopped at a clearing on the top of the hill to an gorgeous view of Phuket and the ocean. Truly breathtaking. Our large new friends then carried us back to the place where we began and the fun really began for me -- we got to bathe the elephants in a muddy, deep pond. It was awesome! The guides were in the water with us and cued them to spray us with their trunks. Hannah took to the baby elephant in the pond and smiled from ear to ear. It was time to go but I was half-tempted to stay!!
After our elephant ride we journeyed to the Big Buddha. Big Buddha holds true to it's name and stands 45 meters high (roughly 148 feet high). The Big Buddha construction began 10 years ago and is still underway. The best part for me was the chiming of the prayer bells. These heavy brass bells are hung everywhere. They are inscribed with prayers, hopes, dreams and wishes. We got to leave one as well and I smile knowing it's singing in the winds of Thailand.
Our greatest adventure and a favorite for all of us was taking a private boat to snorkel in the Phi Phi islands. Never have I experienced such warm, clear and salty water. It was amazing we zoomed to three different areas where we snorkeled, floated, and jumped off the front of the boat into the gorgeous water. We had a divine lunch right on the beach. It was an absolutely amazing day.
The time between our adventures was spent on the light sandy beach, swimming in the warm ocean, golfing and doing the trapeze. Our trip to Thailand was so amazing! The memory and the friendships we tightly bonded will last a lifetime! I appreciate the beautiful, gracious people of Thailand who helped deliver another great adventure for the Gines family.
Our serious countdown has begun to when we get to go home for the summer. It'll be a year almost to the day that we left our family and friends and the oh-so fantastic soil of the US. Can't wait!!!
As always, to be continued...
Three flights and two layovers later we finally set our bags down in Thailand along with two other families. It was a long process to get there but we finally got some sleep! We stayed at Club Med Phuket (which I do not recommend because it was very overcrowded -- had to pretty much fight for food, drinks, a seat to eat our meals and the excursion was not what we paid for). The next day we took Hannah and Mason to kids club and us adults walked to town. What a wonderful place -- seriously, everyone smiles there!! I think because of their Buddhist culture.
Sunday was a very special for Thailand, their New Year where the Thai people celebrate the Songkran Festival (aka the water festival). The Songkran Festival is about cleaning, purification, and fresh starts. Houses are cleaned, Buddha statues are gently washed with scented water, and elders are honored by pouring water respectfully over their hands. Although the origins of Songkran are far more religious, splashing complete strangers with water has become the main attraction of the festival. Dousing or sprinkling people with water signifies the washing away of bad thoughts and actions, and brings them good luck in the new year (http://goasia.about.com/od/Events-and-Holidays/a/Thailand-Water-Festival.htm). We were armed with water guns, buckets, friends and new acquaintances. I have never had so much fun in my entire life. Witnessing the smiles on my hubby's, kiddos' and friends' faces was fabulous!
The next day Mike and our friend went on a private fishing boat and deep sea fished to celebrate their April birthdays. They caught yellow fin tuna that was instantly filleted and served right on the boat. They had a great time. Us ladies spent the day shopping and had a delicious lunch and drank some amazing wine while the kiddos played in kid club.
Tuesday we all packed into a van and went to find some elephants. The road our driver took had some deep curves and hills along the coastline where we got to view all the beautiful beaches, Buddhist offerings, huts, homes, and businesses. A fantastic drive. We arrived at a random place where four elephants were lined up ready to go amongst metal sided shacks with worn wooden plank stairs that housed the local Thai people. We all got on our elephants which was a little scary. They are so massive and you're so high up and when they walk they shift drastically from side to side. Mason was particularly nervous. They guided us through the hot jungle. The guide that was on the front of our elephant jumped off and asked me to sit on the elephant where he was. He instructed me to keep my hands on the top of the elephant's head. Cool! I was now guiding the elephant. All was well until we were greeted by an unwelcome wild dog. Our elephant and the elephant in front of us started to (what sounded like a) growl and the vibrations from their huge bodies was freakishly loud, deep and shook us (ah sh*t this is how I was going to die, by a elephant gone crazy in the jungle of Thailand!!). The guides shooed the dog and uneventfully we continued our walk (thank God!). We stopped at a clearing on the top of the hill to an gorgeous view of Phuket and the ocean. Truly breathtaking. Our large new friends then carried us back to the place where we began and the fun really began for me -- we got to bathe the elephants in a muddy, deep pond. It was awesome! The guides were in the water with us and cued them to spray us with their trunks. Hannah took to the baby elephant in the pond and smiled from ear to ear. It was time to go but I was half-tempted to stay!!
After our elephant ride we journeyed to the Big Buddha. Big Buddha holds true to it's name and stands 45 meters high (roughly 148 feet high). The Big Buddha construction began 10 years ago and is still underway. The best part for me was the chiming of the prayer bells. These heavy brass bells are hung everywhere. They are inscribed with prayers, hopes, dreams and wishes. We got to leave one as well and I smile knowing it's singing in the winds of Thailand.
Our greatest adventure and a favorite for all of us was taking a private boat to snorkel in the Phi Phi islands. Never have I experienced such warm, clear and salty water. It was amazing we zoomed to three different areas where we snorkeled, floated, and jumped off the front of the boat into the gorgeous water. We had a divine lunch right on the beach. It was an absolutely amazing day.
The time between our adventures was spent on the light sandy beach, swimming in the warm ocean, golfing and doing the trapeze. Our trip to Thailand was so amazing! The memory and the friendships we tightly bonded will last a lifetime! I appreciate the beautiful, gracious people of Thailand who helped deliver another great adventure for the Gines family.
Our serious countdown has begun to when we get to go home for the summer. It'll be a year almost to the day that we left our family and friends and the oh-so fantastic soil of the US. Can't wait!!!
As always, to be continued...
Tuesday, April 1, 2014
My blog has been published...
I have created my blog into a book mostly as a family keepsake but thought I would share!
Here is the link:
http://blur.by/1s5j3qI
Thanks to all for your love and support during this adventure. We couldn't have done it without you!!
Here is the link:
http://blur.by/1s5j3qI
Thanks to all for your love and support during this adventure. We couldn't have done it without you!!
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